I am so fortunate to have several of these people in my life, and their value is incalculable.
Scott Cochrane is one of those gifts for me.
I first met Scott in the late 90's (that seems so long ago now!) He was helping lead an organization that was having impact around the country, and he did so with the three things that help set apart great leaders: being humble, hungry, and people smart (thanks The Table Group Patrick Lencioni, "The Ideal Team Player")
I've followed Scott's career as it took him to amazing new positions and environments in faraway cities & countries. And now, in a full circle moment, we find ourselves living in the same city again. Which means we can have breakfast every now and then!
I always leave feeling challenged and encouraged. I come with questions and curiosity, and the conversation is always rich and helpful.
Are there people around you who you respect and value, who you would benefit from a one-on-one coffee or a breakfast? What's stopping you from asking them? I wouldn't start with "Can you mentor me?" which can be a bit intimidating. But I think it's fair to say "Can I buy you a coffee and bring 3 questions over 30 minutes?" I believe most leaders would at least be open to that.
Thank you Scott for your long obedience in the same direction these 25 plus years I've known you (and beyond). I'm so glad you continue to use your gifts and skills for good. And grateful for the breakfasts where I get to glean from those learnings.